Hey Reader,

I’ve written a couple of times lately about suffering, and to be honest, I’ve developed a bit of a bad attitude about it.

Suffering sucks. I stand by that.

But pain isn’t the same thing as suffering, and Bill Bryson’s The Body: A Guide for Occupants helped me understand the difference at a time when I needed a different way to think about my body.

I didn’t read the book straight through. I read random chapters and dipped into sections that interested me. I read some of it after surgery, some during chemotherapy, and some at home while I was going through treatment.

It was easy to read. It was funny. It was also full of information I found genuinely fascinating: how different systems in the body work, where chemotherapy and radiation came from, and how immunotherapy fits into the larger story of medicine. The early days of radiation experimentation? Brutal. Absolutely brutal, for the experimenters and their patients.

Bryson is a popularizer, not a medical textbook. I’m not prepared to defend every number in the book, and I’m not suggesting that reading it gave me medical expertise.

But it gave me perspective.

That was especially helpful when I was trying to understand what was happening inside my body. Cancer had made my body feel like a place where something terrible had appeared. The Body reminded me that my body was also an astonishingly complicated system that had been doing an enormous number of things right for more than sixty years.

Bryson writes that abnormal cells become cancerous all the time and that the immune system usually captures and destroys them. Cancer can be a common cause of death without being a common event in a human life.

That was reassuring to me.

Not because it promised that everything would be fine. It didn’t. Cancer sometimes takes hold. Treatment can fail. Bodies can become sick, and recovery can take much longer than anyone wants.

But the larger frame mattered.

The book helped me think of my body as more than the place where cancer was happening. It was also the place that had been keeping me alive, repairing things, fighting things off, and carrying me through ordinary days I had never thought to appreciate.

That wider frame mattered during treatment, too.

I was grateful for the science that could take something as dangerous as radiation and use it with incredible precision to help heal a body. I was grateful for the people who had developed that knowledge and for the people who applied it with skill.

And I was grateful for the kindness.

After the second or third radiation treatment, the people who worked there talked to me as if we were old friends. They remembered me. They saw me. That mattered more than I expected it to.

Pain can sometimes give us information. It can tell us to rest an injured part, seek help, get a test, or pay attention to something that needs care. Pain can point us toward the next thing.

Suffering is larger and messier. It can include pain, but also fear, uncertainty, disruption, resentment, spiritual questions, and the stories we tell ourselves about what is happening.

When I was waiting for tests and scans, I tried to want information more than I wanted a particular result. The scan was going to show what it showed. Worrying about the result ahead of time would not change it.

That didn’t mean I didn’t pray for a clean scan. Of course I did.

I also asked people to pray that my family and I would be able to receive whatever the result was. Sometimes that felt like faith. Sometimes it made me sick to my stomach because I did not want “God’s will” if God’s will meant something I could not bear.

I don’t think mindset is magic. I don’t think we can think our way out of illness. Steroids, chemotherapy, insomnia, pain, and exhaustion all affect how a person thinks. There were days when I was cranky and cynical and had no energy to maintain a particularly inspiring outlook.

What I could try to do was keep fear from becoming the entire description of reality.

Sometimes that meant taking a breath and starting again. Sometimes it meant accepting that I was having a terrible day. Sometimes it meant letting other people help keep me from spiraling.

And sometimes it meant reading a funny, approachable book about the human body and remembering that my body was not only failing me.

It was also doing its best.

That may be the most useful thing The Body gave me. Not certainty. Not a promise.

Just a wider view.

I don’t know that every sentence in the book is exactly right. I do know that it helped me at a crucial time.

Sometimes a book doesn’t need to be perfect. Sometimes it only needs to meet you where you are, give you a little more room to think, and help you see your own life from a different angle.

Read something today that makes you smile, Reader!

—Tracy

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